Does he have commitment phobia?
If your boyfriend has commitment phobia it’s vital for you to learn about it as soon as possible.
Fortunately, with the following tips, you won’t have to stay in the dark for too long. You will see that there are several ways for you to find out if he has commitment phobia or not.
The first thing you should do is watch out and listen for helpful hints whenever you have a conversation about your relationship.
Though it often goes unnoticed, a lot of information can slip out during a conversation. Arguments in particular are loaded with clues and signs.
There are many other sources of information too that will give you some helpful clues, particularly if you Read the rest of this entry »
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Are you the mea culpa type? Do you apologize too quickly?
If you are in the habit of saying sorry at the drop of a hat then you may just have the dreaded Mea Culpa Syndrome.
And if you do fall into that category, you will surely be familiar with that self-recriminating “I Blame Myself” attitude.
But just to confirm take a look at the following signs that should help you to work out if you have -
The Mea Culpa personality:
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Isn’t it strange how the word, “kindness” has become so old-fashioned. It has almost passed out of common usage and is fast disappearing into the realms of verbal antiquity.
It is a word that is seldom used today and seems to stem from a bygone era where genteel manners and etiquette were the highest form of civilization.
No-one today refers to another as “a kind gentleman.” The term in itself is somewhat embarrassing and downright archaic.
Just try being “kind and gentle” and you will soon find yourself kicked out of the fast lane.
Walk around with a philosophy like that showing and the sharks will make a quick meal of you in record time.
And yet the concept of kindness like Aladdin’s lamp is too full of remarkable mysteries to be discarded carelessly onto the floor of the cave.
Kindness is like a smile of understanding that doesn’t glitter on the surface of the eyes but goes right inside to the workings within.
It isn’t a dutiful gesture that accompanies a philanthropic cheque. It isn’t in boardrooms and you won’t find it in crowded places.
Kindness is like a fleeting glance glimpsed in the crinkling of eyes. It’s a quick meeting of souls in the recognition of their common destiny. And it sets them vibrating in sympathy like fine-tuned musical instruments.
Maybe that is why it’s so hard to find these days.
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The holiday season can be the loneliest time of the year.
While everyone around you seems to be buying presents, preparing meals and going to dinners and parties, you feel like a lonely wallflower sitting on the sidelines watching all the dancers whirl by.
When you are feeling alone it rubs salt into the wound to see so much activity and so much shopping and scurrying around.
Your only wish is that it will all go away as quickly as possible.
What are you to feel when the whole world around you seems to be going berserk? Your loneliness is accentuated by all this contrast with your own situation.
So you pretend to be bright and happy. But in reality you are feeling like the only person on the planet who feels miserable and so desperately alone.
But take heart. There are many thousands of people right now who feel exactly as you do. Read the rest of this entry »
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