All these reasons large and small are mostly the result of personality differences.

But things get even more complicated when you have an argument.

Because when you have an argument, there is always a stated reason and a hidden reason.  A quarrel is rarely based on the stated reason alone. That’s just a cover for a deeper problem.

The real problem is usually based on a hidden reason.  So this is where you should be looking if you want real and relevant answers.

The Hidden Reason

Of course, the big challenge is – how do you find the hidden reason?

This is where it gets really interesting.  But take a deep breath first!

Ready?

Your handwriting holds the clues!

And guess what?

When you compare both of your handwritings you get to look into the inner workings of your relationships – behind the scenes.

This is How it Works.

In the same way that we express our feelings by making facial and body movements, handwriting is an expression of our moods and emotions. The difference is that the movement is captured on paper.  It’s like a photograph of your emotions.

Think of an electrocardiogram that captures the pattern of your heartbeat on paper.  Well, your handwriting is a living trail of evidence that you leave on paper as you write. Of course it’s all unconscious.

But technicalities aside, the important thing for you is that your handwriting and the handwriting of your partner holds clues that will help you to understand your personalities.

As you compare the handwritings you start to get a picture of the health of your relationship. The problems pop out, you can see what caused them and of course it’s so much easier to come up with solutions to sort them out.

Obviously you can’t do this alone – you’ll need the help of an expert handwriting analyst or graphologist.

Well you can relax! Help is at hand in the form of a detailed guide that you can access immediately.

Relationship Secrets shows you exactly how to get an expert understanding of your relationship by comparing your handwritings.

You don’t have to be a handwriting analyst yourself. The book explains everything in an easy and entertaining way.

To find out more go to Relationship Secrets .

Yes, life is difficult out there in the trenches for any parent but you battle on regardless because you live in hope. You know you will reach quieter pastures one day soon – when your child hits his or her 40’s.

If it’s any consolation – you are not alone!  Parents often go through difficult patches when their children reach their teens.

The first sign arrives rather unexpectedly. Suddenly you realize that your child has outstripped you – and you are old.

Shock?  Ohhhh yes! It’s a shock alright!

But don’t feel too bad about it.  It only means that you have graduated.  You have now become “The Older Generation” or “The Old Folk” or “Old Fogies” or some such mark of veneration. You’ll get used to these terms as you become more familiar with them. You’ll hear them often enough.

Meanwhile, try to relax and enjoy the calm before the storm because there’s more to come.

The thing to do now is to let go of the reins and allow your teenager to find himself on his own.  After all, isn’t that what you did?

So without being obtrusive be sure to be ever-present.  Let your child know that you are waiting in the background to support and advise him whenever he needs it.  But make sure that it really is the background. Provide a strong and positive presence but be careful not to intrude.

Attune your ears so that you can hear and listen to the silences. This is not quite as strange as it seems.  What it means is that you should make yourself aware and sensitive to the real but unspoken needs of your child.

Be receptive to all those confusing signals that he sends out expecting you to understand everything in an instant.

And most importantly – be ever ready to understand that what he is saying is the exact opposite of the message that he is trying to convey.

And when you really want to know what on earth is going on, take a look at his handwriting. Has it changed a lot in the past year or so? Pay particular attention to the variable slant. Does it look normal or chaotic? Too much chaos means – how did you guess – inner chaos and confusion!

And then you can take a surreptitious peep at the lower loops that will soon tell you if there are any raging hormones.  Best you find out now – because you will be the one that will have to deal with that too!

Think I’m joking?  I’m not.

There’s a little handwriting personality test you can try to see if you are too critical, or if you are inclined to blame yourself too quickly.  Maybe you tend to shut your eyes to the whole problem. Check it out. It may just give you a little insight into your relationship with your teen.