Comments on: Do you find it Difficult to Apologize? http://relationship-world.com/do-you-find-it-difficult-to-apologize/ A World of Relationships Mon, 09 Jan 2012 19:33:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: A Mea Culpa Personality: Do you apologize too quickly? http://relationship-world.com/do-you-find-it-difficult-to-apologize/comment-page-1/#comment-28289 A Mea Culpa Personality: Do you apologize too quickly? Mon, 09 Jan 2012 19:33:52 +0000 http://relationship-world.com/?p=191#comment-28289 [...] a related post which may be of interest if you find it difficult to apologize. Be Sociable, Share! TweetShare [...] [...] a related post which may be of interest if you find it difficult to apologize. Be Sociable, Share! TweetShare [...]

]]> By: Amy http://relationship-world.com/do-you-find-it-difficult-to-apologize/comment-page-1/#comment-6256 Amy Thu, 24 Mar 2011 17:31:20 +0000 http://relationship-world.com/?p=191#comment-6256 I was involved with a wonderful guy for two years, but he continually would say vile things to me, and would never apologize. Instead would say "I don't want to lose you." Right before I broke up with him he went into a raging "session" because of something pretty stupid. I apologized for what I thought I did wrong to him while he was raging. He made me sob at how "awful" I was for a good hour. It ended when I went to sleep. The next day I wanted to talk about what happened the night before, and he couldn't see what he did wrong with what really was his emotional abuse of me. When I realized he could take no responsibility for or apologize for what he did, that I was in a relationship with a toxic person, and I decided to move on. I hired a courier to return my engagement ring to him. I was involved with a wonderful guy for two years, but he continually would say vile things to me, and would never apologize. Instead would say “I don’t want to lose you.”

Right before I broke up with him he went into a raging “session” because of something pretty stupid. I apologized for what I thought I did wrong to him while he was raging.

He made me sob at how “awful” I was for a good hour. It ended when I went to sleep. The next day I wanted to talk about what happened the night before, and he couldn’t see what he did wrong with what really was his emotional abuse of me.

When I realized he could take no responsibility for or apologize for what he did, that I was in a relationship with a toxic person, and I decided to move on.

I hired a courier to return my engagement ring to him.

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