You’ll be surprised to learn how very little most couples know about each other when they first move into a steady relationship.

If you also fall into that category and don’t know anything about your partner’s personality or background you may be forced to face certain realities in your relationship before too long.

For example, it’s possible that you may not have realized that your partner had a temper or had a problem with jealousy until it was too late. You didn’t realize how things could turn out.

Simply Ask the Right Questions

If couples in relationships asked the right questions before committing themselves to  long-term relationship there would be fewer relationship problems. If only couples learnt to ask questions first before tying the knot there would be many more happy relationships and far fewer divorces.

Even if you think you know your partner inside out, there are always questions to ask that will help you to clear up any misunderstandings.

How often have you heard someone say; “Why didn’t you ask me?  If you’d only have asked I would have told you!”

You certainly won’t know all the answers at the beginning of a relationship. But you’ll have a very good idea of the direction your relationship will take if you simply ask the right questions.

So what kind of questions should you ask?

In the early days of your relationship you probably won’t have a clue. You probably haven’t even given it a thought. But if you’re serious about the future of your relationship – it’s vitally important that you do think about it.

Here are a few questions that couples should ask themselves:

• Do you both have the same attitude to money?
• Are you emotionally compatible?
• Do you both like the same type of vacations?
• Do you share the same attitudes to children and family?
• Do you believe in soul mates?
• What kind of relationship do you have with your parents and siblings?
• Are family traditions important to you?
• Do you share the same religious outlook?

Fortunately, Michael Web, a well-know writer who appeared on Oprah and innumerable TV shows addressed this very problem.

“An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place if couples asked each other the right questions” he says.

“How compatible are you and the person you are with?” he asks. “And how would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship.”

Help for Couples

In order to help these couples he put together 1,000 of the most important questions couples should be asking each other.

He chose these questions specifically for couples to use while they are dating. However, it’s interesting to note that as many as 700 of these questions are particularly important for married couples to discuss as well.

The 1000 Questions for Couples to ask one another may be just what you need at this stage in your relationship. Take a look.

1000 Questions for Couples

All these reasons large and small are mostly the result of personality differences.

But things get even more complicated when you have an argument.

Because when you have an argument, there is always a stated reason and a hidden reason.  A quarrel is rarely based on the stated reason alone. That’s just a cover for a deeper problem.

The real problem is usually based on a hidden reason.  So this is where you should be looking if you want real and relevant answers.

The Hidden Reason

Of course, the big challenge is – how do you find the hidden reason?

This is where it gets really interesting.  But take a deep breath first!

Ready?

Your handwriting holds the clues!

And guess what?

When you compare both of your handwritings you get to look into the inner workings of your relationships – behind the scenes.

This is How it Works.

In the same way that we express our feelings by making facial and body movements, handwriting is an expression of our moods and emotions. The difference is that the movement is captured on paper.  It’s like a photograph of your emotions.

Think of an electrocardiogram that captures the pattern of your heartbeat on paper.  Well, your handwriting is a living trail of evidence that you leave on paper as you write. Of course it’s all unconscious.

But technicalities aside, the important thing for you is that your handwriting and the handwriting of your partner holds clues that will help you to understand your personalities.

As you compare the handwritings you start to get a picture of the health of your relationship. The problems pop out, you can see what caused them and of course it’s so much easier to come up with solutions to sort them out.

Obviously you can’t do this alone – you’ll need the help of an expert handwriting analyst or graphologist.

Well you can relax! Help is at hand in the form of a detailed guide that you can access immediately.

Relationship Secrets shows you exactly how to get an expert understanding of your relationship by comparing your handwritings.

You don’t have to be a handwriting analyst yourself. The book explains everything in an easy and entertaining way.

To find out more go to Relationship Secrets .

A relationship that has gone wrong can throw your whole life out of balance and your whole world out of focus. You will probably feel that everything is going wrong at the same time.

When our feelings are hurt we feel vulnerable. We lose our objectivity and our powers of judgement all at the same time.

We can hardly expect to fathom the deep down causes of our problems when our emotions are in turmoil. Only bionic vision could help us to see inside our conflict-filled relationships.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could observe our relationships impartially and get a true picture of what really was going on inside?

Impossible? Not entirely.

You see, there is a way to look into the inner workings of your relationship where you can see it clearly and impartially. (To be continued)!